Oscar 2012 InStyle

I am sure that you already know who won or did not win Oscar this year, so let check some pictures of actors and actress who deserve Oscar for style...

George Cloney in black Armani suit with Stacy Keibler in gold grecian style Marchesa creation
Cameron Diaz in summer white Gucci gown
Michelle Williams in red Luis Vuitton dress
Gwyneth Paltrow in white minimal robe from Tom Ford
Milla Jovovich in one shouldered elegant gown by Ellie Saab

Let me know who do you like the most?

Buffet is good but not unique...You do not want to be just good, do you?

Let me ask you question at beginning. If there would be an option for you to select between 2 options what would you take? 

A) Eat in place like buffet where is selection of meats, sides and desserts

B) Eat 3 course meal in place with soul, energy and unique atmosphere

I am wondering about your opinion and try to explain why. With my friends we decided today go to have food outside because during week we do not have time for that. We were searching for some place and finally we chose one buffet. Why? Because in buffet you find a variety of meals and price is not expensive. Unfortunately we forgot take in mind other factors. By the way what was your selection, buffet or restaurant? Why did you select like that?
 

So let me share my feelings. I think place was nice, there were a good selection of meals and kind staff. We came, had food and left. Those are my emotions from place.

 There was nothing breath taking. Place and meals did not leave any emotions to share. Place like buffet miss culture, I realized that it is just about to have food (a lot of food :) ) but it place completely miss its own culture, passion, vision, back story, something that would characterize place like unique. Every place should say its own story, something that make place irresistible and you would share story with others and make you come back. And I am aware that same principle can be used on people. People who know where they go, with purpose, passion, dreams and vision are unique and followed. Do I want to be just part of mass without passion, back story, purpose, vision, dream that is question that you have to answer yourself?

Anyway there are 2 ways you can choose to go. You can be part of buffet, place which is good, it fulfills own goal however spot like that miss passion, purpose, vision. Or become part of place with soul. Be aware of your purpose, vision, dream, uniqueness, have back story, your own culture. Leave emotional experience and people will share your story because of strong emotion that will keep their mind and hearts long interested in. Same like place to eat. Choose buffet and you will not share anything about it, select spot with soul and energy and you let others to try it as well. So where would you like to go eat?

Desire, starting point of everything

Let me ask you, have you ever played back situation in your mind and wished that you handled differently? I guess, we all did. Can you remind what that was? What was feeling you had? Anxiety, procrastination, hesitation.  It meant you were out of balance with your desire or you have set yourself apart from what you really wanted. In either case you get this ugly feeling. That sense of knowing that your choice was not aligned with what you desired. Learning to make choices from your feelings, desires takes practice and patience. A good place to start is to take ownership of your choice. No matter of results, you are in charge of. Knowing that you are willing to stand behind your choices empowers you to make a choice from your desire and not from outcome.

What do you want the most from life? I think all answers will aim to future. So far, you have it in your own mind. If these thoughts are mixed with definite purpose, persistence and burning desire you can translate into reality. I do not think about what I do not have, better way is that you establish strong desire for that. Desire is one of the strongest positive emotions that lead to action every time.  I try to do things with desire that you do succeed, help or bring better feelings.

How you can build burning desire? At first, fix in mind whatever you want to achieve, it has to be definitive. Determine what are you intend to give in return for that. Establish time frame you want reach it. Create definite plan for carrying out your desire and put plan into action. Write it down like statement and read it morning, evening and what is important feel it when you read, use your imagination. (This is taken from philosophy created by Napoleon Hill where he were searching for common clues behind succeeds of the greatest people.)

So as you can see the issue is not what we want, it is about how you can build strong desire for that and how you can accomplish your goal. I had set up mine approximately 1 and half year ago and I still did not reach it. Remember you will not get it in several months, it takes longer but if you put energy, power and effort everything backed with goal, you will reach it. What is your desire?